u/Any_Process_4480

▲ 5 r/pregnancy_care+2 crossposts

4 weeks pregnant after a CP need a little advice please

Hi all, I have a question about initial scanning. I had a CP last October at a little over five weeks and while I pregnant I had made an appointment with a midwife for an initial scan several weeks out. I never made it to the scan because of the miscarriage but when I spoke with the midwife, her name is Robyn, she said “just a heads up, next time you’re pregnant, I don’t really like to donjnitla scans until ten weeks of pregnancy because you can’t truly tell if the pregnancy is viable until that time frame. Before then is just too soon.” I understand this time frame but I’m conflicted about it getting any testing done beforehand because I also had a very good friend going through a miscarriage of a different sort at the same time as mine.

In her experience, she didn’t suddenly loose symptoms and get a period, she continued to have symptoms and no bleeding all the while her pregnancy wasn’t progressing at a healthy rate. Her hormone levels were low and not rising and with multiple tests weeks apart she was advised to take a pill, basically the abortion pill to move the miscarriage along.

If this instance were happening to me, I’d rather know sooner than later or wait an extra five weeks thinking I’m pregnant when I’m actually not progressing with a viable pregnancy.

Does anyone else share this sentiment? Am I just being impatient? I want to be positive and present but I also want to be realistic and in the know. Any advise helps. Just trying to be calm and not put ky bad first experience on this one. Thanks everyone 💕

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u/Any_Process_4480 — 10 hours ago
▲ 13 r/Realestatefinance+1 crossposts

Should I sell my house that’s 4 years away from being paid off

Hi - my house has been on the market for a little over 50 days and I haven’t had any bites. I’ve lowered the listing price from 448,000 to 420,000 and my agent is reccomendkng I drop the price 10k more now. Here are the facts

-Purchased for &185,000 in 2015 at 3.2% interest

- I owe $45k

-Mortgage is &1050

-rents for $2200-$2400/month

-loan maturation in 3.5 years.

If sold for $400000 I would net 320,000 and have to pay som substantial property gain taxes.

Currently we live in California where cost of living is very high and use the profits in both of the rental houses to supplement the rent for house we will in. The rent profits cover our rental home in California.

If we sold, we would use the money to buy land and build a house in the south of Chile. Somewhere my husband and I would really love to live.

Thoughts??

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u/Any_Process_4480 — 1 day ago