Problem/Goal: We’ve been married for 3 months. Right now, nakatira kami sa parents ko. WFH ako while husband ko umuuwi lang every weekend kasi may libre barracks sila sa work/project site.
To be clear, walang problem sa parents ko and aside sa hindi kami magkasama okay nman yung setup namin ngayon (para nga lang kaming hindi mag asawa)
Less expenses and mas madaling makaipon.
We also have a joint account and may personal savings naman din kami.
Pero gusto ko rin sana mag grow independently as a person and as a wife. Gusto ko ma-experience yung sariling space namin, sariling routine, sariling decisions as a married couple. Kahit simple apartment lang okay na sakin.
Point niya:
“Habang nakakatipid tayo, maximize natin mag ipon.”
Point ko:
Gets ko naman, pero gusto ko rin sana ma-experience yung sariling space namin as husband and wife habang early stage pa lang ng married life namin. Kahit simple setup lang okay na sakin.
And honestly, gets ko naman yung side niya. Practical siya and mas security/savings focused.
Pero nung inopen ko yung feelings ko about wanting to eventually move out, parang nauwi pa sa tension, ngayon hindi ko na alam paano ko siya ioopen ulit without sounding ungrateful or parang minamadali ko siya.
Please, need advice!!