Amy Jackson, Katrina Kaif and the recent Morni take away representation from Indian women and mísogynists never question them. But they always point out and interfere whenever Indian women like Priyanka Chopra, Preity Zinta, Anisha Dixit, etc., marry Foreign men. Why the double standards?
DNI - We, "Do Not Interact" with |ndian m-n on internet unless they prove their loyalty towards lndian women. We'll put simple demands,
- Removal of all mísogynst content towards lndian womên. 90% of the mísogynst content and negativity on lndian womên is created by them, including memes, posts on x and other social media. lndian women don't even make 5% of such content against them. They play as victims in such posts and shift the blame on lndian women
- There shouldn't be any Non-Desi womn in Bollywood - Amy Jackson, Katrina Kaif, etc. If they still plan on having, then there should be equal number of Non-Desi male actors paired as lead actors with Indian women too
- They shouldn't sell out lndian women cultural attires and dresses to Non-Desi womn in Bollywood and Music
- They don't get to interfere in which ethnicity men we date or marry. Indian women - Priyanka Chopra, Preity Zinta can marry Wh|te men or Anisha Dixit can marry B|ack men. We are free to date and marry men we find compatible and connect well with irrespective of the ethnicity or country of the men
We should go DNI against |ndian men those who don't accept these points. lndian women don't depend on lndian m-n, actually they depend on us. If lndian women wants kids, we can get donor and have children, we don't need lndian m-n for that. Indian women should unite as a group, the internal division between Indian women must go away - we need strong sisterhood
Other Desi / South Asian women are welcome to support us and show solidarity, we need all the support we can get
DNI - We, "Do Not Interact" with |ndian m-n on internet unless they prove their loyalty towards lndian women. We'll put simple demands,
- Removal of all mísogynst content towards lndian womên. 90% of the mísogynst content and negativity on lndian womên is created by lndian m-n, including memes, posts on x and other social media. lndian women don't even make 5% of such content against them. They play as victims in such posts and shift the blame on lndian women
- There shouldn't be any Non-Desi womn in Bollywood - Amy Jackson, Katrina Kaif, etc. If they still plan on having, then there should be equal number of Non-Desi male actors paired as lead actors with lndian women too
- They shouldn't sell out Indian women cultural attires and dresses to Non-Desi womn in Bollywood and Music
- They don't get to interfere in which ethnicity men we date or marry. Indian women - Priyanka Chopra, Preity Zinta can marry Wh|te men or Anisha Dixit can marry B|ack men. We are free to date and marry men we find compatible and connect well with irrespective of the ethnicity or country of the men
We should go DNI against |ndian men those who don't accept these points. Indian women don't depend on lndian m-n, actually they depend on us. If Indian women wants kids, we can get donor and have children, we don't need lndian m-n for that. Indian women should unite as a group, the internal division between Indian women must go away - we need strong sisterhood
Other Desi / South Asian women are welcome to support us and show solidarity, we need all the support we can get
So, I want to highlight a case from India which was making headlines few months back. The Indian woman exposed a m-n who was acting in an indecent way in a public bus towards her in Kerala. The m-n after getting exposed of his indecent acts decides to delete himself. In any other country, the case would be handled differently as the convict deleted himself since he was ashamed to face justice for his actions. But in India, the woman who exposed him got arrested instead.
This case just highlighted how much biased the Indian society is against Indian women. The comments from lndian m-n on social media on this case was as usual dismissing all the problems Indian women face and supporting their own kind. Some were even commenting that the woman shouldn't complain because according to them the man is more good looking. I don't know what "good looking" means anymore. The only thing we, Indian women get in India is Mi'sogyny, Ca-steism, Colorism, Internalized-Ra€ism. I have heard and also experienced more appreciation for Indian women from men in other countries.
I also see Indian women get appreciated more outside India like Priyanka Chopra, Freida Pinto, Avantika, Charitra Chandran, Supriya Ganesh, etc., but the same women face negative remarks and colorist insults in India
Indian pickmes won't raise a voice when Wh|te women like Amy Jackson, Katrina Kaif, etc., are casted in Bollywood effectively taking away represention from Indian women. But they question Indian women who marry Wh|te men like Priyanka Chopra, Preity Zinta, etc.
Indian pickmes won't defend Indian women when - Charita Chandran, Supriya Ganesh, etc., are targeted on social media by lndian mn. But they immediately come to defend whenever we call out or counter lndian mn with the same energy
Indian pickmes rarely stand up to support other Indian women but act like pickmes for the mn who oppress and degrade us. They even bully or moral police Indian women who are interested in dating or marrying out to men from other countries or cultures
Indian pickmes don't have the guts to go to lndian mn subs and question them when they speak negative things about Indian women. But they are extremely judgemental and critical towards other Indian women in Desi women subs
There are already too many social hurdles for Indian women to succeed and represent ourselves properly. On top of that, they make things even more difficult for all of us. If they can't defend or say anything positive about Indian women, atleast they can sit out of the discussions revolving around Indian women and not interfere in Desi women discussions