u/Anxious-Divide-4367

Hi, its currently 1am, and i cant sleep, my entire house stinks, my wife got 2 cats without asking me and she didnt even inform me abt how much she spent on my card on the cats and their essentials, i dont mind, js a heads up wouldve been nice, because one of the cat peed on my work shoes and scratched my wife, we dont know if theyre vaccinated, my wife can be a bit clueless, i tried hard not to lashout but i cant help it, i grew up an only child with no pets and its very overwhelming, i dont want to hurt my wife's feelings, is there anyway i can learn to tolerate this? i do want to grow close to the cats eventually, but this is too sudden, its been 2 days, and theyre peeing and pooping everywhere, ive locked up my room and im avoiding staying home because i keep sneezing, like 5-6 times in a row, im just so stressed, im working towards a promotion and this situation is not helping at all, and the smell just makes me nauseous, if any of u were surprised with cats at home, please, help me out.