Can someone please tell me what works best for lowerface tighten and smile line? I've tried it all but I feel I need more assitance I want to be snatched this summer. I've even considered getting softwave or thermage but I've read conflicting reviews on both. PLEASE help!
This is actually a really good question, because people in manifestation spaces love turning emotions into rigid rules, and half the time they contradict basic human experience.
Here’s a version in your voice for Reddit:
I’m genuinely asking this from a curious place because I feel like I’m missing something in manifestation logic.
People in the manifestation community always say that if you’re truly “in the end,” you wouldn’t be emotional or crying over your desire because that means you’re aware you don’t have it yet.
But tonight I got home, had a drink, was looking at photos of my family, and started crying tears of gratitude and joy because I feel so blessed to have them in my life. My family is REAL in my 3D. They exist. I have them. They love me. And yet I still felt overwhelmed with emotion and gratitude to the point of tears.
So this is where I get confused.
How is that different from me crying tears of joy while imagining my desired reality with my person and future life? Why do people immediately interpret emotion as “lack” when humans cry over things they already have all the time?
People cry at weddings.
People cry holding their newborn baby.
People cry watching their parents get older.
People cry looking at old photos.
People cry because they feel deeply grateful for what already exists in their life.
So why is it suddenly “proof you don’t have it” when it comes to manifestation?
I’ve been consciously manifesting my desired end with my person for about a year now, and when I connect to that reality, it feels incredibly real to me. Not desperate, not fantasy-like, but REAL.
But when I’ve posted about this before, people basically said, “If you were really in the end, you wouldn’t cry because once you have it, it feels normal.”
And maybe eventually it WOULD feel normal. But even in real life, humans still feel emotional about things they already possess and experience every day.
So am I misunderstanding what “living in the end” actually means? Or do manifestation communities sometimes over-pathologize normal human emotion?
Has anyone tried it? What were your results and do you have a device you can recommend?