As I mentioned previously, here are a few more details to give you a better understanding of how things went. First of all, she was the one who made the plans. I had to travel to a location 17km away to meet her. The movie was scheduled to start at 1:00 PM, but she didn’t arrive until 1:40 PM. When she finally showed up, I greeted her warmly; I even had a tub of popcorn ready for her. She saw the bucket and told me she was "on a diet," which was quite clearly a lie.

When the movie ended, the real issues began. I was wearing a white shirt and white Nike Air Force 1s. For some reason, she started questioning them, asking, "Why are you wearing fake Nikes? Are those even real?" I actually showed her the listing for the Air Force 1s on the official Nike website, but she just insisted, "I think they’re fake." I realized then it wasn't worth justifying myself to her.

Then she asked about my "maximum package." Since I am currently focused on my startup, I told her my last salary package, which was quite decent. This triggered a long brag about her family and where she lives—apparently a posh society in the Jayanagar area. I’ve always heard that guys lie on dates to impress girls, but this was the first time I’ve seen a girl tell lies that were so easy to spot.

She even mocked my startup, calling me "unemployed." Whenever I tried to explain my work, she would get furious. To make matters worse, she displayed a sense of "fake feminism," mocking every polite gesture I made, yet she never once offered to pay a bill. Whenever the check arrived, she would suddenly look at her phone or head to the washroom. I don’t mind paying—I actually prefer to pay when I meet anyone, whether it's a friend or a relative—but I found it hypocritical. If you are going to boast about how rich you are, why not show it? I even noticed that her heels and top weren't branded, and she had the audacity to mock my Android phone while she was using an iPhone 11. I pretended not to notice to avoid a confrontation.

When it was time to leave, I asked if she wanted me to book a cab for her. I also asked if she wanted anything as a small memoir of the day, to which she replied, "I don't need all that." Once her cab was booked, she insisted I stay longer, insultingly saying, "Even cab drivers are rejecting you; I am the only girl who accepted you." At that point, I was done. I simply replied, "I can't stay; as you know, I’m 'unemployed' and need to go earn money so I can buy original Nike Air Force 1s."

The insults didn't stop at my career or my shoes. On the phone, she even had the audacity to say, "It’s not like you’re very handsome or anything; my ex was way more handsome than you, but I don’t know why I’m still thinking about you."

Even my height became a point of contention. When she asked how tall I was, I told her 6'2". She immediately snapped back, "You are not 6'2". I know what a 6'2" guy looks like." The fun fact is that I’m actually 6'2"½, yet she was trying to argue with me about my own height. She also kept insisting that the medical profession is inherently better than engineering. I was so fed up with the constant belittling and arguing that I actually walked away from the table twice, making up excuses that I needed to step out for a smoke just to get a moment of peace.

Late that night, she called saying she missed me. I replied coldly: "You aren't the first one, but okay." I eventually posted the story on Reddit, which she saw because I hadn't blocked her yet. She started spam-calling me, fuming and calling me a narcissist and arrogant, saying I didn't deserve a girl like her. In the next breath, she said she was "ready to forget everything" if I met her the next day. I disconnected the call, and she is now blocked.

tldr

I traveled 17km for a date with a girl who arrived 40 minutes late and spent the entire time "negging" me. She mocked my startup as being "unemployed," claimed my original attire was fake, and even tried to gaslight me by saying I wasn't 6'2" (despite me being slightly taller). She constantly compared me unfavorably to her "more handsome" ex and looked down on engineering as a profession. Despite her boasting about her wealth, she dodged every bill. I finally ended it with a sarcastic comeback, and though she tried to crawl back later while still insulting me, I have now blocked her.

So am 26 male i have been in Bangalore for almost 6 months i have been quite busy so last Friday i felt like i should go out and meet some new people as that will help me open up in this new city so I met a girl from Reddit

she sounded kind of chill before meeting claiming herself to be a medical professional so we planned a meet-up movie then dinner and then a lil conversation this was the plan.

So we met on saturday from my end it was just a meeting kind of we watched a movie and then while watching movie she was talking loudly i just asked her very gently to please do not speak so loudly as people are watching movie she did not said anything to me then but as soon as interval happen she started lashing out on me even loudly by telling do not fuckin tell me what and how to speak am not your slave or i asked for appolgies and then she came in movie resumed but at that moment i felt like okay she might be a pampered kid so its okay,

Then i asked her what would you like to have and from where would you like to have it I am new so I do not know many places so we picked a place in mall itself I was trying to be as gentle as humanly possible with her but she was fckn disrespectful like am a pure vegetarian she was disrespecting my food choices and not even leaving or planning to leave soon then she started bragging about how rich her parents are the society where she lives in her ex boyfriend and all am a very decent looking man I do not look bad at all 6'2" tall and lean and have nice features then she started saying stuff like i have dated men who are 6ft you are not 6ft when in reality even with her 3.5 inch heals i was towering her like a giant I even asked her if she wants we can measure my height in mall then that same girl disrespected my phone like why do you use android and stuff I was calming myself down thinking how to ask her to leave and never talk to me again multiple instances of disrespect trying to touch me hold me and trying to get closer to me and i was getting disgusted by her behavior so i asked her permission to go out for smoke she came down with me i smoke marlboro Red and she started saying infront of everyone buy a expensive ciggerate why are you buying a cheap one and other stuff i felt lil embarrassed I said nothing and then after having conversation which was more like a argument where she is just arguing about everything asking about my exes trying to disrespect my ex partners so i told her nothing about my exes and then she lashed out again then i thought now its enough so i asked her I think we should book cab and leave and now for the first time she became a lil desperate asking me to stay for a lil longer which i refused by clearly stating you argue in a very bad way am all in for debate but not for disrespect in a very gentle way so that she does not feels bad and then i booked my cab and she booked hers we are all good.

Then by midnight I receive a call from her stating that I was thinking about you and all that stuff i maintained my calm and made a excuse that i will be leavinng for Kashi again to my hometown within few weeks so now I do not think we should meet and all she started requesting about ohh lets meet again and all those things i would not say that she was ugly but yeah she was short chubby I was like I did not met you because i wanted to date you and I even told you while we were about to meet that I do not date anyone as am waiting for the right person and you shoudl find someone who is as rich as you i do not prefer rich girls like you and she tried calling me again but now i do nott fuckin care

tldr: After six months of focusing on work in Bangalore, I met a girl from Reddit for a movie and dinner. The red flags appeared immediately: she lashed out when I asked her to lower her voice in the theater, mocked my vegetarianism, and spent the evening bragging about her family's wealth and her exes. Despite me being 6'3", she tried to gaslight me by claiming I wasn't even 6'0", and she openly mocked my choice of phone and cigarettes. When I finally cut the date short due to her constant disrespect, she became desperate for me to stay. Despite her subsequent calls claiming she "missed me," she flipped back into a rage after seeing my Reddit post. She is now blocked.

Update:- she read this post as i forgot to block her and she called me stating am a narcissist and she thought I and her was cool stay tuned for part 2 Link for part 2 https://www.reddit.com/r/BangaloreMeetups/comments/1t2sd13/met_a_girl_on_reddit_part_2/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

So am a 26 M since almost 6 months am working on a personal project and because am new to Bangalore I don't even have too many friends here incase anyone is available we can meet and have dinner or if you have anything fun what I can do alone please tell me that too