Sometimes “taking it slow” can mean building something thoughtfully. Other times, it can become prolonged ambiguity where intentions never get clearer. The line between patience and being kept in limbo can be hard to read.
At what point do you feel “taking it slow” stops being healthy pacing and starts becoming a situationship?
People often talk about warning signs, but the quieter signs of a healthy connection can be just as important. Sometimes the qualities that matter most in dating are subtle and easy to overlook early on.
What is one underrated green flag you’ve learned to value, and why? It could be a small behavior, a pattern, or something experience taught you to appreciate.
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