3rd and 4th wave feminism are not legitimate movements. Concepts like the patriarchy are based on essentially propaganda and lies.
*FYI this has nothing to do with all women. It doesn't even have to do with women. It has to do with feminism.
I am not implying or stating that all or most women do anything.
And if they are they are legitimate in the same way as anti-environmentalist corporate shills who want to deregulate the world so that their companies can make a cheap and dirty buck are legitimate.
If feminism is about trying to create equality between the sexes then we have to take the meaning of equality to be legal equality. Socially or psychologically "equalizing" the sexes would require fascist dictatorships that would mirror the worst dystopic novel or worse. You can't force your values onto other people.
Additionally the values that are trying to be forced onto other people are values designed to somehow give way to some feminists being given position in the world that they don't deserve or have not earned (through affirmative action quotas). And the greatest joke of that part is listening to some middle or upper middle class woman from America talk with her small liberal arts or Ivy League college education about how she should be an executive or top leader just by virtue of her existence in spite of not having put in the work to get such a position in the first place
Every one of the arguments from their lobbies mirrors the same sort of nonsense mentality of distorting basic information and introducing alternative facts and lies.
I remember during the Sokal Squared affair the authors had published Volume 1, Chapter 12 of Mein Kampf by altering and replacing several of the nouns and subjects with men and nouns and subjects relating to men and titling it Our Struggle Is My Struggle: Solidarity Feminism as an Intersectional Reply to Neoliberal and Choice Feminism. It was enthusiastically accepted into the feminist journal Affilia.
3rd and 4th wave feminism is a propaganda driven movement plain and simple. Just look at the forums within this website that are dedicated to it and the forums throughout the internet that are dedicated to it and talk to some of its adherents.