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So something happened recently and I can’t figure out if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are valid.

My girlfriend went to a friend’s birthday party. There’s this guy in that group she refers to as “bhai” (like brother).

At the party, apparently he asked her something along the lines of “feed me with your hands.”
She actually did it… not just once, but 2–3 times.

After that, she stopped and said no.
Now this is what’s bothering me:

Why did she even agree the first time?

And then why continue for 2–3 times before refusing?
If she knew it might be inappropriate, why not just say no immediately?

Am I overthinking this, or is this a reasonable thing to feel upset about? How would you handle this situation?