We met almost a year ago and dated with the intention of getting married, and so even our families were involved. We instantly connected and felt like we've known each other forever. We shared our deepest trauma with one another, spoke about everything from career to marriage to kids. He kept saying, having a family is all he ever dreamt of. Everything seemed perfect until it wasn't.
As things got serious, I could he see he was reeling under anxiety and we eventually thought we should not take this ahead. I was left heartbroken to say the least. Just when I was slowly learning to heal and move ahead, he constantly keeps coming back asking to give this another chance. Tbh he never fully let me go and I do realise that is toxic. I found out through a friend that he seems to have some sort of attachment issues and that he often jumps from one relationship to another before he has learnt his lessons. I know for a fact that he has had a very troubled childhood.
I fully understand that I should pay more attention to one's patterns more than relying on synastry. The thing is, it has been well over a year and I cannot seem to shake this man off from my head. I eerily feel his energy around me all the time. He keeps saying that he tried connecting with other women but he could never feel the intensity of our connection. I don't know if he's trying to manipulate me and drag me back into a push-pull dynamic.
Does he genuinely feel anything serious towards me? I have very traditional views when it comes to marriage and commitment and I simply cannot waste my time on a man who is after short-term flings.
Does the chart suggest the possibility of anything long-term? Please help!
I'm blue, he's orange. Have also added the composite aspects.