u/Ancient-Strain-6174

Over 40 and still on the fence but have always leaned toward no. But I turn 43 in a month and was hit with a lot of grief. Because my decision will soon no longer be mine to make. Biology is about to choose it for me.

Did anyone here wait because, like me, they simply couldn’t decide? And what has your experience been like with a baby in your 40s? Are you happy with your decision? This sudden sense of urgency to have a baby has never happened to me before but I feel like it has a lot to do with FOMO

The main thing that has been keeping me on the fence are certain things that I want to achieve in a creative career.