vanja
i marked this as serious because of topics of the religious war vanja lived through.
finally watching the newest « single life » episode and i have to say that it really puts her behaviour in perspective. she has religious trauma and had to grow up way too quickly to help her family adapt to a new language, country and culture. her wanting security and a relationship, while still a problem she needs to work on, makes sense because her entire youth was unstable and unsecure.
she still needs to slow down on dating and rushing but i do get it. with bozo, she liked him because they were from similar cultures, so she rushed. with josko, they were from similar cultures and she had just had her heart broken, so she rushed. with tony, she’s realising that she’s getting older and that is making her rush into a relationship with tony.