u/An_phy
Need Advice regd School+Prep/Rant
Basically, rn I am studying in regular school+ offline coaching, weekday batch.
My parents are constantly insisting me to also give my attention to school homework and assignments as well as towards my jee prep. They are always very insistent tht 11-12th schooling is very important and that i should not take school for granted (for context they are both professors(Law)). They are EXTREMELY against dummy and non-attending schools. They insist that i dedicate 1-2 hrs everyday to studies, that my homework should be complete and that i should always know what is going on in school.
I DONT want to waste my time in school, but they insist that i should attend school often ( Even tho school is thoda lax regd attendance).
When I told them tht JEE would require all my attention, and tht ofc i would not be able to focus, they said "Do saal school se padhlo, fir ek saal drop lekar coaching karna"("Study with school for 2 years, then take 1 drop year")
and they are saying tht they dont care if I have to take a drop year. Problem hai kyunki I care about cracking JEE in 2 years. I dont want to waste 1 extra year of my life preparing for this exam( maybe more than that agar 1st attempt mein nahi hua).
Whenever my homework is incomplete, they threaten me ki "Coaching se naam katwa denge, agar balance nhi ho rha" ("We will remove u from the coaching, if you are unable to balance both"). I have no arguments for this kyunki bhai mein kya hi keh sakta hun? Rn Reshuffling tests hone waale hain ek mahine mein, aur mujhe uske liye padhna hai. My mother told me to stop my physics work and do computer science , toh laptop utha ke maine yeh type kar dia.
Abhi my batchmate (Non attending schl) called me to ask "n factor of h3po3" (He is using keypad phone, and can only call and message) he is doing his chem work freely and i feel so jealous bhai....
In a nutshell, My parents care more about school than jee and i care more about jee than school aur mujhe school ka nhi padhna.
Thx for reading, advice will be appreciated.
For context im in Delhi, Pitampura VMC