Had an intense attraction to another guy for the first time and now I’m confused?
I was at a bar with 3 other guys and we wanted to play darts. One of them is this very tall guy (around 2.06m), really objectively attractive, lives in the Netherlands but comes back to Croatia sometimes.
Another friend asked him if he wanted to play with him, and the tall guy basically responded that he wanted to play with me instead. Later me and another friend drove around in the car and I realized I became weirdly infatuated with the tall guy.
It wasn’t even mainly sexual fantasies. It was more romantic/seductive tension, imagining mutual attraction, chemistry, attention etc. I genuinely felt butterflies and kind of fell for him during the night.
Now I’m confused because I’ve never reacted this strongly to a guy before. Does this automatically mean I’m gay or bisexual? Or can people sometimes just get intensely attracted to one specific person without it fully changing their identity?