Apa kejadahnya dengan muslim yang tengok kita exmuslim sebagai “ex yang tak boleh move on”?
Which ex is unable to move on, actually?
We want to break up, but they won't let us. They still force us to carry the name of Islam in our ID. They still insist we follow the sharia laws that are only exclusive to those partnered with them. They still won’t allow us to marry a non-Muslim. etc etc..
And the extremists will pull out the hadith from Muhammad that when used in this context basically sounds like “if someone wants to break up with you, kill them.” How’s that for “moving on”?
What kind of relationship is that? A fucking toxic one.
When you have a toxic partner like our toxic loser ex, you will investigate, gather evidence, and expose all their wrongdoings, spreading it to the public so that no one else becomes a victim of being locked in a basement after partnering with them. This is a logical cause and effect of real life.
Of all the insults that Muslim trolls use to troll us, this is the most triggering one for me. If it's just a troll like “haha you'll be burned in hellfire later,” “the torment of the grave,” “you'll answer for it later,” etc., I can just relax, like accompanying little kids enjoy Frozen, Snow White, Pinocchio. Same level of fairytale. But this “ex can’t move on” insult is triggering for me.
Not because I feel embarrassed to be labeled as “the ex who can’t move on.” I don’t. It’s not even hard to justify the act of an ex exposing their ex’s toxicity.
But it’s because I feel how incoherent, hypocritical, blind, and incredibly stupid the people using this insult are. They definitely need to “muhasabah” diri, to look in the mirror.
Done rant.