I've been eating less and working out more (Youtube cardio videos, running(in place lol), pilates) but it's extremely hard to get pounds off but extremely easy to gain which is really discouraging. I slacked for like two non-consecutive weeks and have gained like 10+ pounds. I feel like no matter what i do I'm just gonna stay fat. For reference i'm 5'3 ½ and 167 although im not too sure how accurate my at home scale is
And before yall come at me, I am a virgin, in a commited relationship of 2 years and asexual. There's so many posts where people try to have moral superiority just cause they're a virgin. First, I dont see why yall be so anal about others having sex. Does it affect you in any way? Most of the time these posts just be sounding like there's some deep seated jealousy. Second off, not having sex doesnt make you better than anyone. Its a personal choice and if you dont want to...thats fine! If you do want to? Thats fine! As long as you're staying safe, understand the consequences that may come, in a safe environment and with someone you trust/have talked extensively about boundaries.
Idk these posts are just so annoying. Worry about yourselves and i promise it'll make your life better. Once you stop being so concerned about what others do then you'll be more at peace. A lot of yall seem to have some internal battle going on and can only gain confidence from hating on other people