u/AlwaySmiley247

I’m not blaming Asa for not knowing that Rex was a killer. Lots of other wives were blind sighted too. That’s not where the mind usually goes. But I do blame her for not ever questioning that he might be cheating on her…plenty of red flags for that. And then she doesn’t get mad that he may have exposed her to STDs. She still calls him and then moves into the kill room. Nobody can explain that, not even the psychologists understand. It makes me wonder if the witness by John Ray ( I’m only focused on the swinger one, each ones has to be scrutinized separately). I don’t think Asa had interest in torture or swinging. But I do question if she knew Rex was into using prostitutes and looked the other way as long as he was a good father and took care of them financially. That does explain her weird behavior and her not seeing any red flags because she is lying. She saw red flags and chose to ignore them for security. It also explains why Rex plead guilty to Karen Vergata as to not implicate Asa. It explains why she didn’t question him not going on vacation with the kids. Explains why she is sleeping in the kill room. I don’t think Asa participated in torture or killing she seems very vanilla. And she did seem to remove the kids when Rex did it. But I do think she was obsessed with Rex and probably tried to trap him with baby Victoria. They got married after she found out she was pregnant. She also likes being taken care of financially. And I wonder if they had an agreement that she would go off, he would entertain sex workers ( possibly didn’t even know about them being killed). I don’t subscribe to John Rays view that she was participating. One sex worker was killed in their bed so that’s likely where her hair came from.