u/Altruistic_Point_834

Hi everyone, my name is Andrea , I’m 23 ,5’4, 105lb recently graduated with a bachelors in business from university of Miami. I was in the sigma delta sorority.

Let me tell you, that your struggles in dating is because you don’t have a good personality. My bf is funny , charismatic, caring, and most importantly CONFIDENT. He just happens to be 6’3, blonde, chiseled face and played college football. His family also owned a multimillion startup. But those were all coincidence, it was his personality I was drawn to

If he was a 5’4 manlet Indian I would STILL date him.

So for those who think that it’s your looks that you’re struggling, you’re fooling yourself. It’s your PERSONALITY… get over it. Be more funny, charismatic and most importantly CONFIDENT !

Since 2007 I spent a majority of my free time pursuing athletics. In 2023 I started competing professionally. I am ethnic, so if I told you my sport it wouldn’t be hard to find who I am…. So I’ll keep that anonymous. After turning pro, I slowly climbed the ranks and I am somewhere mid pack as a pro athlete

I thought that would help me with my dating life, it did not. The hot girls in the sport i partake in are mostly with tall white chads. Many of the handsome chads aren’t even good at the sport. I am objectively better than 99.99% of them . But it doesn’t matter . I am ethnic, 5’8. No matter how good I am , it doesn’t improve my chances of landing an attractive girl.

Positives though is that I am respected by the tall athletic chads, and made a lot of good male friends as an adult. Bonded through the pain of and pursuit of excellence. They all have very attractive gf’s, and I am better athletically than most of them .

I love the sport that I do, but 19yrs of status maxxing isn’t going to help you land a hot gf

People think if you get no matches on apps you can just go out IRL and hit up all the Stacies. It’s mostly a waste of time. Just because you meet a girl IRL doesn’t mean you aren’t competing with the tall chads in her match list…. Also, what do you think the single chads are doing ? Just at home swiping ? Heck no, they are out and hitting on the girls you’re interested IRL too.

If you go to meetup events hoping to meet a gal IRL. 90% of the time or more you get led on and used as attention or betabux. Since IRL women are way nicer and don’t want to reject you in case you guys see each other again in the same social setting .

Also, let’s imagine you DO find a girl that may be interested in you. She’s gonna look around her and see her uglier friends with Chad. Simply because that apps exist, even if you don’t use it, women SMV are all inflated. If you try to meet them IRL you still won’t meet their basic looks threshold no matter how funny or fun you are. At best you’re friendzoned or used as a jester

Escort maxxing is the equivalence of girls sleeping with Chad. Neither wants a relationship with you. Chad is just getting his sexual fix and the escort is getting her money. Both chad and the escort are arguable more physically attractive. Also, both are ethically frowned upon.

However, if women has slept with Chad, then it’s reasonable for guys to sleep with escorts.

If you pursued a woman got rejected and she tried to friendzone you, never accept. Don’t delude yourself in thinking “oh maybe she’ll introduce me to one of her other hot single friends” . That 100% never happens.

For the sake of argument, let’s assume it did happen. She introduced you to another girl, what do you think the other girls brain is thinking? “ if this dude is such a catch, why isn’t she dating him?” … her vouch for you is essentially useless

If you are looking for a romantic or sexual partner, befriend women in LTR instead. They will help you much more significantly, since they have a valid alibi for not dating you already