u/Altruistic-Sock6872

Should I take a guy friend back who blocked me for his gf?

I had this guy friend for two years, we weren't like BESTFRIENDS but yes i would say we were fairly close. Close enough that none of us would rethink our messages before pressing send, could bond well in group settings or on a personal level. I wouldn't expect him to have my back in every situation but i could rely on him a lot of times for small stuff. 5 months ago he got a girlfriend, I was quite happy for him. Everything was normal for a week or two, he was posting her and stuff and even told me about her briefly. It's not like we used to chat everyday but yes once in two to four days we would chat, or often meet in social settings. Now this one random day he blocks me, I feel so taken aback, i contacted a mutual friend and asked them if they had any idea why this happened. I got to know his gf asked him to unfollow all his female friends (he didn't have a LOT to begin with) and kind of stop talking to them I guess. I know one's priority should be his gf but it felt super weird to me that I was blocked abruptly without a word, i even felt upset to a certain point. Cut to a week ago, I get a "hey" on instagram, asking me how I'm doing, I did not reply. Even in real life indirectly he tried to initiate some conversations, I got to know he broke up with his girl. I did kind of miss him as a friend but I didn't take him back, somewhere I feel guity taking in consideration he blocked me for his girlfriend which theoretically doesn't seem wrong taking their relationships pov, but I did feel upset and hurt somewhere, i still don't know what to do.

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u/Altruistic-Sock6872 — 7 hours ago