Hi all! So I've been on SM for around 8 months and doing quite well there, but doing online sw for around 6.5 years on other platforms so I'm def not new to it and in that time have learned how to run my room as I want and be firm in my boundaries.
But last night was streaming o SM and a demanding man really pissed me off. I told him while in an exclusive that I wasn't comfortable with doing something (pounding my pussy super hard and fast, I just dont enjoy it, it hurts me so I dont do it), he continued to be demanding but for other things that I am ok with (showing my feet, scrunching toes while playing with toy etc) so I set boundaries with some things he requested, however other things I did do that I was comfy with and gave it my best tbh it was a difficult show just because of his energy alone, but I did it.
After all his requests he left the show early and I see that he has left me a 1 star review. I've been angry all night. Like ok, maybe if I didn't fulfill one of your desires in excl but I literally told him upfront at the beginning of the show I wasn't going to do one thing, everything else he asked I did in the show. All my other ratings from the past 8 months on SM are positive and 5 star. Last night apart from his I also received 3 other 5 star ratings. I know this guy was just a massive douche, I should've ended the show myself early tbh, but how do you girls continue to set boundaries in your room and run it as you want without the fear of getting low reviews?
I'm autistic with cptsd so its taken me a long time to get where I am now and feel comfortable being so assertive and firm in my room but I have grow to feel confident with this and usually I am, but this idiot set me back and I feel a bit flat and insecure today but I need to stream soon so was hoping for some advice or encouragement?
Thanks so much chicas!! Hope everyone has a successful weekend x