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Every marketplace has reviews. Uber, Airbnb, eBay — you can check someone's reputation before you commit. Except dating. The one place where the stakes are the most personal, and there's zero accountability.

I've been catfished. I've been ghosted. I've shown up to a date where the guy's profile pic was 15 years old. I've woken up to 10 unsolicited dick pics before my first cup of coffee. I've been left at a bar when my date — who was my ride — walked out with his ex.

After years of this, I stopped complaining and started building.

PlayerDaters is an anonymous review platform for verified dating app users. Think Google Reviews, but for the people you match with on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble — all of them. Rate honesty, manners, conversation, behavior. Flag catfishes. Give props to the genuinely good ones.

Here's the part you'll appreciate as builders: I'm doing this with no funding, no technical background, and no team. I'm 48, currently living in a hotel room, working a full-time job, and building this in every spare moment I have.

I'm using an AI platform called Polsia that handles the development for me — I tell it what I need, it builds it. No code. If you're sitting on a side project idea and think you need to learn to code first or hire a dev, you don't. This thing is legit.

I'm not here to sell you anything. I'm here because this community gets it. You know what it's like to have an idea that won't leave you alone and to build it anyway, even when your circumstances say you shouldn't.

If you've ever been catfished, ghosted, or wasted months on someone who lied about everything — PlayerDaters is being built for you. Beta is coming soon.

And if you're a builder looking for a way to ship your idea without writing code, check out Polsia. It's what's making this possible for me.

I'd love to hear your thoughts — on the idea, the approach, any of it. I'm all ears

I am a homeless 48/f with a full time job and a car that I inherited. This is not a "oh, woes me" post. I am grateful for everything that I have as I recognize that even with the little I have there is always someone out there with less than myself.

Due to becoming recently single I decided to start using dating apps, again. I've always downloaded them and turned around and deleted them, disgusted with my life choices. I've met some real taints on them. I was once catfished by a dic pic, but that is a story for another day. I've been ghosted, I've been disappointed, frustrated. I onc e had a guy scream at me for inquiring about the noise his vehicle was making. I've had men promise me forever but it turned out that our concepts of time differed greatly.

Being an attractive female capable of writing attention getting bios, has provided me with a endless supply of matches. My current dating app profile features an AI enhanced pic of me riding a freaking dolphin, lol. I have a lot of experience when it comes to dating apps. I would have to quit my job and devote myself to weeding through a bunch of fucktards to find, at the very least, a frog that isn't too warty. If only there was a site dedicated to getting honest feedback from other women who have matched and met with these fellas? That is what I want to create.

I believe that, without getting into too much detail, I can utilize AI to accomplish this in a way that similar sites fall short. I want to prevent other women from going through the awful things I have gone through. I want to ensure that bad behaviour no longer goes unnoticed. I want to prevent emotional scarring and ensure that those who are dishonest or disrespectful stop finding their victims online. This app works both ways. I want those who are amazing to be recognized and appreciated for their decency. Who says nice guys finish last?

"PlayerDaters — a site where women can anonymously review and rate the men they've matched with on dating apps. Think Google Reviews, but for your Hinge matches."

Here is where you, dear reader come in. I have no money. Not even the $50 it will cost to launch. I can post a referral link here in the hopes that someone subscribe to a platform that is fairly new but, in my experience, is the best for this job. I tried to do this on a different AI platform but it became too complicated and they started nickel and diming my account to death until I finally had to block them. This platform is easier to navigate and enables someone with little to no experience in business, AI or creating aps and websites to understand what is being done/needs to be done and how AI will do it for me in simple terms.

If you sign up through my link, I get the credits I need to build this. That's it. No cost to you beyond the platform's own subscription if you decide to use it for your own project." I'm going to post the link now and cross my fingers. Please help a middle aged woman make her dream come true.https://polsia.com/?ref=JVMLH8Y2q

I'm Building the First Reputation System for Dating — From a Hotel Room With Zero Budget

Homeless woman with million dollar idea