Restraint Order or Escalation options (LONG READ ALART)
Legal Practitioners/ People who have had somewhat a similar experience, your perspective would go a long way on this matter.
There's an old man who keeps threatening my mum.
Ok back story first : There has been bad blood between the families for decades.
The man himself is a very problematic person, After his kids grew up and became stable, his wife alidecided kujipa shugli because alikua anamsumbua , Infact some years back this lady told my mum "Mimi nimemtoa kwa roho afanye kile anataka" she was waiting for her kids to relocate her and they did.
So this man lives alone (My theory is anaboeka na he decides start issues with my mother because ata ukiskia venye issue hua zinaanza, unashangaa tu mara he misplaces his jembe and starts saying my brother sold it and instead of coming to ask my brother because anajua tu huyo atamlima he comes to my mother and starts shouting, another time he said mandizi zimeibwa kwa shamba mind you hakuna kitu iko kwa shamba yake yenye haiko kwa shamba yetu so stealing would be pointless, mara he cuts trees from my mums shamba : my mum loves trees so thats definately a trigger)
Now Last year he attacked my mother I can't remember how it started but my mum was the one hurt but some how he got a P3 for injuries he didn't even have and said ni yeye ameumizwa and went to the police station and put on a sad face kwanza akishatoa zile meno artificial za wazee cheeks zinaingia ndani. Whole time my mum ako hosi yeye ashareport and also ashapea askari chai. So by the time My mum gets the actual P3 and goes to the same police station the officers were even harassing her further because washa kula zao they are asking "We mama venye unatoshana aka kamzee ndio unataka tuamini kamekuumiza ivo?" .
And there alot more series of aggression and distress he causes my mother. The chief doesn't seem to help coz apparently they are relatives and the police are useless once they see money najua if I start going band for band with him and his 9 successful kids, Ntaumia
The nail on the head is how recently he comes with weapons_ About a month ago, he was with a panga outside the door, another instance he had a jembe , Today he threw a mullet at my mum, kama hangeinama I would have been in mourning rn.
She tries so hard to avoid him but This is not someone you can avoid easily because njia inapitia inje ya kwake before ufike kwa nymba
Na ako kamzee ni kadogo and very old and manipulative thats how he manages to convince people ati mama yangu anamsumbua. Mama yangu akiamua kumguza kanaeza dedi.
I need suggestions that can help me solve this issue once and for all.😪Juu pia mimi its draining me emotionally and finacially.
Please recommed the option I can research on and also the process of filing a restraining order, and can it work in this case?