Recently I thought about a lot of people who were once close to be but our paths just naturally didn't go together anymore. I carry very positive memories with them and would like to text them, ask them how their life went on. But my friend told me it is a bad idea, it is better to leave those relationships behind. Do yall think it's weird or actually nice to text your old friends like that?
I am a really extroverted person, I love spending time with my friends and texting with them when we cannot meet. But recently I started to feel like I am the only one who gives their effort into this relationship. I am the one to initiate meeting, I am the one asking questions, get excited over things they share with me, but I don't get anything back. I don't get asked how I feel, I get a very limited response to anything I say and is important to me. I feel lost, I don't know what happened (we didn't have any fight). I really don't talk about myself that often, but It would feel great to know that somebody actually enjoys and misses my company. It feels like I need to fight to keep that connection alive. Have you ever been in a situation like that? What did you do?