u/Alternative-Gas-8180

If I get accepted into a domestic violence shelter with 9 month old , but there’s no custody order with me and the dad we have a spoken agreement,

will my daughter be allowed to leave the shelter for a few days to stay with him and then come back to the shelter with me ?

I’m her primary caregiver, again.. no custody order . but her dad can’t do anything right and we both know this . So she spends 5 days with me and 2.5 days with him

My daughter will not be in harm being around her father either I just don’t know how the process works。