u/Alternative-Bed9084

I’m working as a software developer with a Canada-based client. On paper, my hours are 9 AM to 6 PM, but in reality, because of the time difference, I regularly end up working until 12 AM or even 2 AM.

It’s not just weekdays — even on holidays, work doesn’t really stop. Recently, I had completed all my tasks, including production-related work, but missed sending a status email while I was out for a few hours. I was asked to send it immediately late at night, which meant dropping everything and rushing back.

This isn’t a one-off situation. It’s becoming a pattern where I feel like I’m always “on call,” and it’s starting to affect my personal life.

Another issue is that I find it hard to say no. There’s always this fear that pushing back might affect my job security, especially in the current market.

For people working with international clients:
- How do you set boundaries without creating conflict?
- Is this kind of schedule normal, or am I just handling it poorly?
- Any practical ways to manage expectations better?

Would appreciate honest advice from people who’ve dealt with this.

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u/Alternative-Bed9084 — 13 days ago