u/Alshareef-Babad

had an interview last week and it was going really well. felt comfortable, conversation was flowing, i thought i was actually doing great. then out of nowhere he asked if i was planning to start a family soon. i just sat there for a second. my brain fully stopped. i knew it was wrong, i knew i didn't have to answer it, but in the moment i was so caught off guard that i just kind of laughed nervously and gave some vague non answer about being focused on my career right now. walked out and was annoyed at myself for not handling it better. not because i owed him an answer but because i had this moment where i could have said something and i just. didn't. what would you have actually said in that moment because i keep replaying it and i still don't know what the right move was