Update I ended up being the other woman and now the wife is trying to ruin my life
I posted 2 months ago about finding out I was the other woman.
A lot has happened in the last 2 months. I immediately broke all contact with David and have not had any contact with him since. I blocked him everywhere. I also had to retain a lawyer mainly because I had no idea where this was going and David's wife was reaching out to anyone she even had a thought knew me. Because she kept reaching out to everyone she could find that had a connection to me, we ended up sending her a cease and desist letter.
I have moved away from the city that was "our place" and he does not know where I live now. He has tried to contact me to "fix" things with us; however, my stance is that there is no "us". Everything he ever told me was a lie.
In response to some of the comments and DMs that I received. No, I do not think it is odd or weird to have a relationship where you only see each other 1-2x a week. Like i said, I am a very busy person, and I do not have a lot of free time. I also went to "his place" regularly. It was a fully furnished apartment with a fully stocked kitchen. There was food in his fridge, snacks in the pantry. There was zero indication that this was not a place that he lived in. Did I go through his closets? No, because who the fuck does that? That is weird as fuck.
At the end of the day I was a victim of a horrible man who was violating his wife and me at the same time. I am seeing a therapist to help process this whole situation.