u/Alone-Bar2300

My husband and I are on the cusp of a long-dreamed retirement, and Todi has captured our hearts completely. We’re planning to make the move within the next year or so and would love the wisdom of people who know Umbria well.

We’re both 70, American, and have visited Todi several times over the years. We’re drawn to the pace of life, the beauty of the hill towns, the food and wine, and the genuine sense of community that feels increasingly rare.

A few things we’d love input on:

•	Daily life as a foreign couple — how welcoming is Todi to expats in general, and to a same-sex couple specifically? 

•	Community — are there expat groups, English-speaking social circles, or LGBTQ+-friendly networks in or around Todi @ Perugia.

We’re not looking for a bubble — we genuinely want to integrate into Todi life, learn Italian properly, and be good neighbors. Any candid advice, cautionary tales, or warm encouragement is very welcome.

Grazie mille in advance.