Navigating autonomy and safety in a senior refusing essential assistance.
My father resides alone and is exhibiting signs of self-neglect, including nutritional issues and a declining living environment. He is currently cognitively capable of refusing care and becomes defensive when the topic of home assistance is raised. I am seeking guidance on how to introduce support without triggering a power struggle. Has anyone successfully used "stealth" care or third-party interventions to ensure safety while respecting a parent's need for independence?