I don’t know, the whole damn show? The whole full-blown mental breakdown for example?
At this point I should be fully aware that in this fandom, only Zuko’s feelings and trauma matter. You can feel some sympathy for Azula but it cannot risk shedding any bad light on the fandom’s golden boy directly or Indirectly, the latter including those who are nice and affectionate to him thus in the camp of 100% pure good people. As for these “nice to zuko camp” good people? The fandom does not really care about their own feelings no, they only pull out the part where they think can justify why these people do no owe azula anything and has been rightfully treating azula differently from zuko.
But even knowing this I just still find it amazing how it is so ridiculously easy to invalidate Azula’s pain and trauma cuz it’s azula and especially when it risks shedding bad light on those who are in the nice to zuko thus good people camp.
Alas at end of day this attitude kinda shines through the show itself right given how much screen time is focused on Zuko’s emotions and feelings, yet the moment Toph tried to connect with him bringing up her family trauma, but got shut down by Zuko yet the show treats is as a comedic moment. The show itself implies and the audience gladly leans to the notion that only the male characters are allowed to have feelings and outbursts whilst the female characters are there to comfort them. And the moment the female characters show any emotions they are either unreasonable, annoying, or get shut down, or get ridiculed for being madwoman’s crazy thoughts.