u/Almost-impressed-863

Hi everyone!

I’m a 28-year-old Kenyan woman, 5’4”, childfree, and not religious. I work remotely, which gives me some flexibility with travel and where I can be based.

About me? I occasionally write poetry, I love learning new things, trying different foods, playing Scrabble, watching TV shows, listening to music, taking long walks, and reading. I’m getting into painting, although admittedly, I don’t think it’s a gift I possess. I dance too, although I have two left feet.

I’d consider myself introverted, although I do have some extroverted traits.

About you? I’m looking for someone who communicates well, is empathetic, kind, and emotionally available. I don’t smoke and would prefer a non-smoker. I’d also like someone who enjoys travelling, as I do that occasionally.

I’m open to something consistent that can grow into a long-term connection. I don’t mind long distance, and I’m open to relocating if it feels right.

Thank you for reading!

I'm 28, based in East Africa, and I work remotely. Plus size. Childfree.

I'm quiet when you first meet me. Then I get comfortable, and suddenly I have opinions, side stories, random thoughts, and a playlist for every mood. At some point, you'll start wondering if I was ever quiet at all.

Most days, I'm reading, watching something, or listening to music. I'll probably send you a song, a clip, or a thought with no explanation, and expect you to get the vibe. I write too, but nothing public. I tried painting once. The canvas and I agreed to go our separate ways.

I haven't traveled as much as I want to, but I'm changing that. I'm finally in a place where I can actually do something about the life I keep imagining, instead of just thinking about it at odd hours like a dramatic person.

What matters to me is honesty, even when it's uncomfortable. I like consistency. Do what you say you will do. I like intentionality. Move like your choices are yours, not like life is just happening to you and you're simply present for the plot.

I want someone with direction. You don't need to have everything figured out, because honestly, who does? But you should at least be walking toward something. I also want emotional depth. I like real conversations. I like being able to talk things through without feeling like I'm conducting an investigation.

About you: older than 28. Taller than 5'4, because that is me on a good day. Honest. Grounded. Ambitious in some direction. Open to distance, but only if there's a real plan to close it if the connection is right. I'm open to relocation for the right person.

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I'm looking for someone who plans and follows through. Someone who wants to build something real with a real person.

If this sounds like you...