u/Allen_Howard

Could she return

Me and this girl started talking back in February, asked her to be my girlfriend on 4/3/26 and everything is great but just last night she hit me with this and I notice that she has been a little off.

“these past few days i've been thinking a lot and i just think things happened to fast i don't think im mentally ready for a relationship right now. i want you to be happy but i cant make you happy if im not happy myself, you genuinely deserve the best your such a good guy and deserve way better. im so sorry allen im just not in the place right now to love you and be with you. please just know you did absolutely nothing wrong, you are one of the sweetest guys i've ever met, im just so stuck and need to focus on myself and getting my life to where i want it before i focus on a relationship.”

I know it only a short time but I still have heart for this girl and im not going to wait on her at all but if she did reach out I’d take it.

And the next morning she woke up, texting her best friend crying, saying her that she feels terrible, how she shouldn’t have done it and that she just don’t know what to do. I was her first on intimacy, showering together, and sleeping skin to skin

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u/Allen_Howard — 4 days ago

Me and this girl started talking back in February, asked her to be my girlfriend on 4/3/26 and everything is great but just last night she hit me with this and I notice that she has been a little off.

“these past few days i've been thinking a lot and i just think things happened to fast i don't think im mentally ready for a relationship right now. i want you to be happy but i cant make you happy if im not happy myself, you genuinely deserve the best your such a good guy and deserve way better. im so sorry allen im just not in the place right now to love you and be with you. please just know you did absolutely nothing wrong, you are one of the sweetest guys i've ever met, im just so stuck and need to focus on myself and getting my life to where i want it before i focus on a relationship.”

I know it only a short time but I still have heart for this girl and im not going to wait on her at all but if she did reach out I’d take it.

And the next morning she woke up, texting her best friend crying, saying her that she feels terrible, how she shouldn’t have done it and that she just don’t know what to do.

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u/Allen_Howard — 10 days ago

Me and this girl started talking back in February, asked her to be my girlfriend on 4/3/26 and everything is great but just last night she hit me with this and I notice that she has been a little off.

“these past few days i've been thinking a lot and i just think things happened to fast i don't think im mentally ready for a relationship right now. i want you to be happy but i cant make you happy if im not happy myself, you genuinely deserve the best your such a good guy and deserve way better. im so sorry allen im just not in the place right now to love you and be with you. please just know you did absolutely nothing wrong, you are one of the sweetest guys i've ever met, im just so stuck and need to focus on myself and getting my life to where i want it before i focus on a relationship.”

I know it only a short time but I still have heart for this girl and im not going to wait on her at all but if she did reach out I’d take it.

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u/Allen_Howard — 13 days ago