My bf(27m) and I (26f) are about to move in together. We have been seeing eachother in and off for over 4 years and have been in a serious relationship for a year. After a lot of careful thinking and several conversations we decide to move in together.
This is the first time living with a partner for the both of us. And to say the least we are both nervous and very excited. But I’m debating on asking to go through each others phones before we move in together.
He hasn’t done anything to make me thing he has cheated or anything but I have been cheated on a few times more then I’m willing to admit. So moving in with a partner is a big deal for me bc I finally trust someone enough to share a real personal space for the first time and combine my life with his. When we move in together I want to make sure we have complete trust. I want to move in with complete trust. And I want him to feel the same trust level.
I don’t want to be controlling though. And I want to genuinely trust him. Especially since he is not done a single thing to make me think he has done anything. If anything he has done the opposite. I just don’t know though. does anyone have advice?