Hey there, I’ve been studying astrology for a long time and am aware of most of the asteroids and have some in the 11th house as well including Chiron, south node and part of fortune. ( I know SN and POF are not asteroids, but just adds weight to the 11th house) My question is if every reading claims I’m popular with others and have a great circle of friends because of this placement, then why do I feel like the opposite? On a good day I have maybe a few friends if any.
I’m also described as quiet, even though Mercury is exalted in the first house. Could the Virgo Mercury conjunct ascendant be making me appear quiet instead of outspoken and a good communicator? I just feel like there are a lot of contradictions in my chart and feel like the 12th house sun/ Saturn conjunct 5th house of creativity and expression is also wreaking a lot of havoc in my life as well. Just need to hear what others think is going on here.