u/Aleisia_

Since my fiancé passed away my practice steered into necromancy. (however it was death related for a long time). However, when reading the ”Communing with the Spirits” by Coleman, he really highlighted that the spirits you do necromancy work with, shouldn’t be treated as lover (nor to engage in any sexual activity trough, for example, vivid dreams). Most of content I see in books mention ancestors but not spouses and partners. So im not sure if I should approach my fiancé in necromancy sense, or like through ancestral veneration?? I’m not sure what approach should I take or if there are any practices that specialize in that specifically