So I believe at the end of February 2026 beginning of April 2026 I had questioned my sister about sending a memorial invite but not her wedding invitation. For context, I’m POMO she’s PIMI along with my mom and dad.
Recently she sends me a “virtual invitation” to her wedding. Which at first I was surprised. And then asked for more clarification because I have the luxury and ability to fly to her place where she getting married at. To which she replied, “no it’s just a virtual invitation”.
Who invites people to their wedding just virtually when they can actually attend? And sure we can play devils advocate and say, that there are limitations. But YOUR relative brother that raised you ??? Not invited to the ceremony? Odd. But ok! Sure. Why send an invite to begin with? For that just don’t invite them, right?
It gets better when I simply leave a voice note and say this isn’t a proper way to do things and that honestly it was a slap in the face. I then leave a voice note to my mom as well, same one.
My sister then keeps replying basically saying that it wasn’t her intention to make me feel bad. But then starts to ask me to literally filter myself because she could hear our mom cry or sob from where she’s at and to be aware of not stealing her joy during these times.
WILD!
For anyone reading this, if your PIMI, think about this… why would you say you love someone who left the organization and then keep them at arms length?
That’s NOT unconditional love. That’s condition love. If you do this … then we can talk. If you come back then we can associate. If free will exists, it exists for a reason. And if someone isn’t causing any hurt or harm why do you let a body of people who pick and prodder a book tell YOU how to love YOUR LIFE?
Ima leave the screen shots of the texts that I got, and let it live how ridiculous this organization is breaking up families for the sake of following a vapid ideology.