u/AlchemicAgave

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WIBTAH if I started commenting on my (26m) gfs (26f) meals?

Long story short, my girlfriend has been trying to lose weight nearly our entire relationship. I’ve only known her at around her current weight and find her attractive like this. I don’t ever comment negatively on her body, the most I do is encourage her to exercise with me or eat more fruits/vegetables, but that’s just general health stuff, unrelated to weight. She’s been making a great effort to get healthy lately and has been fairly consistent with the running, but not really making any progress, and I’m certain it’s due to her eating habits. She’s a very disordered eater, snacking all day, often going back for seconds or thirds after supper etc. Door dashing at 11pm after everyone’s finished eating and winding down, and most of her meals are very unhealthy, like McDonald’s or packaged meals. I don’t really care, but her constant negative comments about her own body make me sad and I know her problems could be alleviated by altering her eating habits a bit. Can I call her out and say no to the 11pm McDonald’s order or the third helping of supper without being an AH?

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u/AlchemicAgave — 2 days ago