Hi everyone, I’m new!
I’m writing here out of curiosity and also because I’d really appreciate some honest opinions or experiences
I met my ex about 10 years ago, and we got into a relationship 8 years ago. We lived together for 3 years, and during that time I felt a kind of love I’ve honestly never felt for anyone else before. It was very deep and intense for me.
When we broke up, things ended very abruptly. The day after our breakup, he started a relationship with someone else, and they stayed together for about 5 years. During those 5 years, we had absolutely no contact at all.
During that time, I did move forward with my life, but the truth is that not a single day went by without me thinking about him. The feeling never really left.
Then, after all that time, he came back. At first, it seemed like he was sure about wanting to reconnect, but that clarity faded pretty quickly. He became more and more confused and distant, until we ended up going back to no contact again. It’s now been about a month since then, and I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he’s already with someone new.
For my own mental health, I blocked him everywhere except my phone (so he can’t contact me easily, but I also don’t risk seeing anything that could hurt me, like photos or updates).
Recently (about a week ago), I asked a witch from Haiti to perform a love spell for me.
Now I’m wondering… did I basically ask for something unrealistic?
What I mean is: does a love spell have any chance of working on someone who isn’t sure about their feelings anymore? Or is it more like trying to make a complete stranger fall in love with you?
Also, my ex is a very emotionally closed-off person. He has some past trauma he doesn’t like to talk about, and he tends to avoid anything related to emotions. He doesn’t really process or express his feelings, and often just shuts that side of himself down.
So I’m also wondering if that kind of personality could make him more “resistant,” in a way.
Has anyone been in a similar situation? Or has any experience with love spells in cases like this?
I’d really appreciate any honest thoughts or personal stories.