Saving a friendship
Hi. I'm not usually this shy online. I don't even know where to start so I'll pick from random.
1- I have a good friendship with someone, but god forbid he replies the same day. (I didn't have a lot of friends, so what may apply to you may not apply to me or vice versa idk what I'm talking about). Sometimes he appears online, but does even: see it, reply if he saw it, I call him 7 min or so after and I get no reply for 4 hours or so then he says something "sorry my phone wasn't on me" "good night". Didn't bother to say more like "talk to ya later" or an emoji? I can handle being late, but not ignored by people I care about.
2- My friend is usually late on time in most events. That is I'm ok with. (Idk why I said it, maybe its a good info.?)
3- Ok now its about me. I cannot see any flaws in myself unless I'm told about it. Which is why anyone that I care about, I ask them about this issue. "What are the bad things about me?"
4- I'm a bit clueless when it comes to "signs" so I just ignore them as a whole.
5- I'm ok with being harsh on myself, truly! So long as the other person (in this case my friend) is worth it.
6- Am I being dramatic? Probably yes. Am I being biased? I can't say for sure but their is a % that I am and to be honest, maybe I am? Idk he never said anything about my flaws, so how would I know?
7- Sorry for making this post. I'm sure their are few details that I didn't think of right now. Ask and I'll answer any. I'll even take the L if it means friendship saved.