We all know how indian parents have that obsession of controlling their child. I (21M) is their only child and also late born. Everything was going well, decent with studies, got 60% in 12th with just last moment preparation. Got into university and passed with 8.04 CGPA. Then came the Job phase. Got campus placement in a well known company which is going through some conversion issues. I waited almost 6 months without knowing what role or pay I'll get and got into some role and the salary was below par which I obv didn't want so I quit and joined a startup. Which he absolutely hated. He took my id card without my permission and posted a WhatsApp status and boasted it around.
I tried to explain that role is irrelevant to my core career as I had interest in HR. He thinks it's some kind of Top role and claims I don't want to work. Now he's always mad about it and I feel like he's gaslighting me into thinking I'm the Problem.
He always imposes anything he likes on me and claims I never force anything and he said he gave good freedom which I misused it seems.
Every night I always feel like a loser because of him. He's now blaming me for not going to the company I never wanted.
AITK?