I (29 F) went on a date today with a girl (33 F) that I had been talking to for about a month. My work schedule prevented it from happening sooner. When we got to where the date was happening, she didn't have an opinion about where in the location we should go first. She also didn't have an opinion about where we should go to lunch afterwards. Finally, she didn't pick up on the fact that I wanted her to hold my hand, even though we had talked about kissing and sex over text, so to me it seems obvious that hand holding was wanted.
If she texts me, I'll consider giving her another shot.
Am I being harsh? Did I expect too much?
u/Aggravating-Box-1666 — 11 days ago