This is a genuine question I have as I try to understand the point of view of the opposite side. Since I can remember, whenever I imagined a girl I would want to be with, she was always some kind of tomboy, athlete, leader or maybe just slightly feral. Energetic and confident, a little boyish in choice of clothes. Maybe even somewhat protective of me. To be clear, I’m talking about character traits and relationship dynamic, not any particular physical appearance or occupation. The fantasy of admiring a capable girl and knowing that she is attracted to me and feeling safe with being vulnerable about my feelings with her.
The thing is, this is what most girls want in men. I get that, this is comprehensible. What I find less clear is what it’s like to be attracted to someone who is more feminine. Especially if it’s a man, and not a femboy. Why would a girl choose to be with one over being with a typical guy? What is attractive in assuming a traditionally masculine role? It seems more taxing and demanding in a way. What do you girls get out of a relationship like that, or why would you fantasize about one? What makes an RR guy attractive to you?