So I’m(M37) with my partner(F33) over 6 years now and we are married 2 of them. I can’t complain and she is the love of my life.
Right now we are traveling together for over 2 weeks and suddenly this abandonment anxiety comes up. Having nightmares about her being done with me and moving on.
There is just no reason for it because before our travel we just bought a house together and we are all the time talking about it and decorating it etc.
I did talk about my anxiety for a moment and she said there used is just no reason for it. She said I married you and we just bought a house so there is no reason to think this way.
After that I dropped it but the feeling comes and goes.
Normally we have very busy lives so I think “‘no time” to think about this.
I know where it comes from tough. 8 years ago I lost my mother and 3 years ago my brother and 2 years ago my brother in law.
How should I proceed. Anyone that can help me/some tips?
TL;DR; Together for more then 6 years and everything is fine. Right now traveling together away from our busy lives.
I have trauma (I think) from losing my mother, brother and brother in law in a short period of time. I don’t want to make things bad and just enjoy.