I've been with this group of classmates (me, girl a, b and D) and we've became close to the point we go everywhere. Back in October someone new started hanging with us Girl D. She is younger than all of us and I guess saw me as a target and started calling me old, that I act old etc. No one corrected her although they are the same age as me and just laugh. Eventually she stopped and moved on to direct jokes that actually did make me feel a type of way. It gotten so bad to the point I was tired of being around them, but whenever I would try to distance myself the would literally come and find me, and beg me to come (where at the moment) with them so I do. The cycle continues. Girl D is basically the mouth piece and says whatever come to her mind and the others laugh. She got close to girl A to the point girl A doesn't even call me outside of school like she use to do. Girl B just doesn't say anything and every now and then a laugh. They've made this joke that now I'm aware of is that I won't eat "white people food" I always ask them what are they talking about and they just laugh (girl A and D). Sometimes girl B laughs and other times she just sit there. Its gotten to the point where I'm walking on egg shelves and wonder when is it gonna happen. Its like I become paralyze to even say anything mean. Girl D always ask me "what wrong? why you lying". She does this to people that are not in our group at random times. It then dawn on me that she doesn it because she knows it makes people uncomfortable. I want to get away from them, but we are in a medical school program where I will always see them and have to be in the same room as them. I am over feeling this way every time I go to school. Should I just end it. Girl D is only going to constantly harass me and bombard me with questions like she already does.
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I've been with this group of classmates (me, girl a, b and D) and we've became close to the point we go everywhere. Back in October someone new started hanging with us Girl D. She is younger than all of us and I guess saw me as a target and started calling me old, that I act old etc. No one corrected her although they are the same age as me and just laugh. Eventually she stopped and moved on to direct jokes that actually did make me feel a type of way. It gotten so bad to the point I was tired of being around them, but whenever I would try to distance myself the would literally come and find me, and beg me to come (where at the moment) with them so I do. The cycle continues. Girl D is basically the mouth piece and says whatever come to her mind and the others laugh. She got close to girl A to the point girl A doesn't even call me outside of school like she use to do. Girl B just doesn't say anything and every now and then a laugh. They've made this joke that now I'm aware of is that I won't eat "white people food" I always ask them what are they talking about and they just laugh (girl A and D). Sometimes girl B laughs and other times she just sit there. Its gotten to the point where I'm walking on egg shelves and wonder when is it gonna happen. Its like I become paralyze to even say anything mean. Girl D always ask me "what wrong? why you lying". She does this to people that are not in our group at random times. It then dawn on me that she doesn it because she knows it makes people uncomfortable. I want to get away from them, but we are in a medical school program where I will always see them and have to be in the same room as them. I am over feeling this way every time I go to school. Should I just end it. Girl D is only going to constantly harrass me and bombard me with quetsions like she already does.