Been with this guy for maybe 3 months now and he has many qualities I want in relationship but last weekend made me think twice about everything
I told him multiple times I'm not drinking this month but him and his buddy kept trying to get me to have drinks anyway. Made me feel really uncomfortable and like they didn't respect what I was trying to do for myself
When I called him out he just said "come here give me hug" and I don't think he actually apologized properly
Thing is I already noticed he might drink too much in general. Plus our physical connection hasn't been amazing and I wonder if that's connected to his drinking habits
Really conflicted because we had some good times together but this whole thing feels like big red flag. Maybe I'm making too big deal of one bad night but also maybe this shows his real character
Anyone dealt with something similar? Should I just walk away or try to talk about it more