I am over my relationship with my boyfriend whom I have been dating for the past six years. He was always a little distant but I chalked it up to us being in a long distance relationship. For the longest time I've felt that he has stopped putting in the effort into the relationship. Things have come to worst since we moved in two months ago and I feel so trapped now that I have a year long lease.
The whole relationship constitutes of a serious of break ups initiated by me. Maybe this is what has made him weary.
He never takes me out or does anything to make me feel special. He blames it on work. For example for my birthday last year he got me a bunch of stuff from miniso. Just on his way back from office he dropped into miniso and go a bunch of random stuff. I would stay up and cook for him but he won't even say a thank you and leave the dishes for me.
I just need help with how to get over all of this emotionally. I really want this break up with him for the final time now.
TL;DR: need insight into how to make a break up last