u/Advanced-Fault-3181

Recently bought a frozen notte 240, and it's my first AIO. I have a question about the orientation. I was planning to put it at the front/side of my lianli o11 dynamic mini. But because of space constraints, I'll have to have the tubes at the top of the rad, and as the pump is in the tubes, it'll be in line with the top of the rad. Not below, not above. Is this an issue? Has anyone got this AIO in the same orientation as this? Ik the pump shouldn't be the highest point of the AIO but this is my only option tbh.

We were together for nearly a year, And this was the first time I have cried in front of anyone since I was a kid. I'd always had problems with showing my emotions because I'd feel weak. Even when I was alone, I'd feel like I'd failed.

On the day in question, I'd had a pretty shit day overall, and it just all got too much. And I cried. It wasn't an ugly cry, or anything much. She comforted me, we hugged, we talked and she was there for me. And I was so relieved and it felt good to actually get it out. But the day after that, she was a bit off with me. Just more distant than usual. She assured me everything was fine and I was overthinking stuff.

A few days on, she told me she wants to break up. She said she had lost a lot of the feelings she had for me. And that she thinks it'll be unfair on me to carry on when she isn't fully in it. I was confused, and didn't even consider me showing emotions could be what caused this. But we spoke for a bit and I ended up accepting it. I didn't want to but she seemed adamant. And I love her so I wanted what was best for her. And if that's not me, then I'll accept it.

We met through our mutual friend group, so we share the same friends, idk how true this is but apparently she told her girlfriends I "broke down in tears" and that it's was "Icky" and she couldn't get past it, so she left me. I never thought she was like this. I was comfortable with her. She's cried around me many times and I've always been there for her, because crying is normal but apparently for her it's a big deal if I do.

Honestly idk what to do. I can't even explain how I feel rn. I've lost the 2 most important people in my life in a matter of weeks.