Just a rant I am feeling very unwanted by my husband.
I don't even know where to start. I am a 47 F I was diagnosed with asymptomatic Crohn's last year. I had what they thought were fistulas, it turned out they were basically thin skin and the rectal surgeon went in and did a repair on them at the beginning of April this year. A few days later I started bleeding out clots and ended up in the hospital for a few days and had to go home with a catheter, it was a mess. Fast forward to now... It has been a month now since the catheter was removed. I am feeling fine. I am not hurting at all, but my husband doesn't want to have sex with me. I feel like when he does I am forcing him. I don't know if I am feeling over sensitive cause i have also gained 20+lbs since I started remicade infusions last June. We have been together for 21 years. Anyways any advice or words of wisdom will be very helpful. Thank you to anyone who spent their time reading this.