Post divorce I was a mess. Signed up for a dating app with no intention of actually meeting someone. I was just lonely. Then she popped up. Beautiful, interesting and recently divorced as I was. After chatting for a few weeks we had our first date, then our second and third. Eventually we were “together” her words not mine. I was actually happy again. She started making and talking about long term things. Specifically a wedding she had a few months from then she was wondering if I’d go. She was “falling in love” and “sort of obsessed”
One night she mentioned a funny dm she got on the dating app that day. I wondered why she still had it as I had deleted it months ago. She replied that she paid for 6 months so she’d delete when it ran out. Red flag. Should have seen it. I let it go. Things were fine.
Few weeks later was her bday. She rented us a room in the city. We spent the weekend (mostly in bed) up there. Had a blast. Sunday as we left she kissed me passionately and said a lot of flattering things and expressed a lot of positive feelings about the relationship. We talked all day Monday as always. Tuesday night though she abruptly stoped talking. All I got was “ i don’t want to talk to you”.
That was it. We text a few times after. I wished her luck and asked what I did. She never would answer. So few weeks go by I go back on the app. There she is still with the same profile.
So did she replace me?