Does everyone just wait for the other person to reach out or do you feel like you should be the one to reach out? I would love to reconcile with my ex. It’s been 3 months of NC.
(It’s been 3, almost 4 months of NC) They said they would be thinking about me around my birthday and would want to reach out. But they didn’t. What do I do? I miss her so bad I just them back in my life…. It appears they don’t miss me.
I need to do chores today and I could use a virtual body double
Would love something more long term if we get along!
Everytime I get the worst urge to reach out to my ex is when something bad is happening to me and I just want them to comfort me. (Which is actually why we broke up, I used them as my ONLY support system and burnt them out) I realize now I am still focusing on myself and what I want instead of what I can offer. I am trying to change my mindset to stop thinking of what my ex can potentially give me but what I can potentially give to them or a future partner.
I still want them back. Not because I’m unhappy alone, but they were truly were special. So also trying to tell myself if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. This is also a hard mindset to shift towards.